How do you get a guy to notice you?

10th May 2006

Some guys are just completely clueless. You can parade in front of him in the sexiest clothes, flirt with him endlessly, even buy him drinks - but if he’s put you in the “friend” slot in his head, that’s where you stay! So what can you do?

You could do what I did - just walk up to him and tell him, bluntly, how you feel. That worked out okay for me. But it doesn’t work with every guy, and you may be afraid of putting yourself out there like that. So here are some more subtle things you can try.

Ask him what kind of perfume he likes, and then make a habit of wearing it. Make a habit of standing close enough to him that he can smell it.

Keep dressing nicely, as sexy as you dare. If other guys ask you out, just smile, tell them no, and say you’re saving yourself for someone. You can glance at him when you say this - if you’re brave enough.

Find reasons to touch him. Touch is very intimate. Especially touch his hair ? brushing his hair out of his face is a pretty obvious sign of your affection.

Ask him what kind of girl he likes to [date](http://www.datingdirect.com). Get him to talk about dating and girls as much as possible. When he asks you what you look for, describe him. It’s entirely possible that the reason he hasn’t asked you out is because he thinks you’d say no. If you’re getting really close at this point, you can always say, “One just like you,” while looking right in his eyes.

If you do all these things and he still doesn’t get it - are you sure he’s interested in girls?ls?